Is It Alright to Be Single? - Merida

Sometimes I ask myself a question. What is mean by "a Princess"? So if ye married a prince and ye are the princess! I know I am the 11^th official Disney princess, at the same time I’m also the 3^rd “technical Pixar Princess” and yesterday my mum asked me was I feeling okay to be single. Aye...I never know why am I a princess when I haven't even married a prince! Or I am a princess from the very beginning because I am the daughter of the King. Aye...yay I am the Princess of DunBroch. Well a better way to...understand the word "Princess"!

But why am I still single? Oh weell...I am the only Disney Princess that does not "need to" have a man. Ahha lets see, I have a royal upbringing, I am the princess and at the same time the master archer. I am kinda a headstrong teenage and I have a clear destiny now. I know my responsibilities. And I have Angus and my wee triplet brothers…haha. Aye okay…I know is not much related. Just the problem is why am I single?

Well I never have an answer to that. That is just I can’t find my…well...man. Aye aye I wanted my freedom, I wasn’t ready… I believe that true love and good will come within just that is not something that can be made or forced. I rejected the arranged marriage with the Lords’ decedents because it is not something that I believe it can be really you know…arranged! 

Frankly I was sitting there that morning and waiting for the whole...thing...to come and what was in my head was just...what was I going to do...? When I heard that they were coming I was just...Oh mine, this - whole - marriage was just - just - why didn't anyone bother what I want - not what they want but is what I wanted! 

But my rules are quite easy - only that I want it and I knew it, I will accept that. I never my life to be over or that I am being over. if something is forced, it is not what I want! I just want to get what I think is...right!

I was selfish, I never thought about the others nor the kingdom, but just myself! Well the rudy traditions are broken and we have nothing to worry about.

And til now I have get the idea...hmm...the reason is actually simple. Is just that I haven't had my love yet! New Age films and modern Disney Princesses movies are doing more work on feminism. I believe modern Scottish female are more tend to be independent or known to be more independent. Aye it is not how mothers are being treated in that way!! More likely we arrange a better way for Scottish mums to take care of children and even that more people are saying how is it important for female to take care of their babies...well if they have one. But a lot of female does have the time and importance for them to work and taking up a role for the opposite sex. But I think these stereotypes are more less not existing nowadays! 

We can say how he character Merida in the story is more tend to take up the male's role or even we are saying she is less a typical princess or more tend to be tomboyish. But in my point of view...why am I still single is simple...because I can't find a man that I love YET!! Aye people...it is just very simple like that. What do you expect though?